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Showing posts with label Octo-Mom. Show all posts
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Monday, March 23, 2009

Oct0-Mom's Secret? What Were Those Doctors Thinking?

What were those Hippocratic-Oath-taking doctors thinking? Call me cynical or call me psychic...this old numerologist cannot believe that Octo-Mom can keep a secret. On RadarOnline.com - Nadya Suleman, the Octo-Mom, used her exclusive home videos outlet to promote her situation and expectations again. After the second two octuplets were brought to her new home, without the media circus of the arrival of the first two - Octo-Mom ANNOUNCED that she'll never reveal the name of their father. That got attention.

So, Octo-Mom made a promise to the father and therefore will not tell the secret? She will not "out" him. And I've got a toll bridge I can sell you...

...bet you'd buy my toll bridge before Octo-Mom refuses to accept cash to reveal the father's name. I hope this poor slob she says is living in California has a passport. According to "Octo" she promised he'd be invisible and safe from notoriety. I have a problem with Octo's promises.

The Angelina-wanna-be did not choose a Brad Pitt look-alike for the sperm donations. The father is revealed to be "not American" and on-camera, she points to one octuplet and says he looks like the father. At this point the tiny Octuplets all look-alike...much like newborns, they look a lot like any body's hairless, toothless grandfather. However, one octuplets face may reveal the secret.

So, Nadya, the Needy, alias, Octo-Mom, is giving clues to the father's type of look and cultural background. He lives in CA. That's a big state but she couldn't travel too far while plotting in vitros and carrying out her diabolic plan. Some good investigative reporter will chase Papa down. A few more clues and enough money offered and we'll all know whom the father is...and she'll get more attention...and, the fourteen babes will be cared for by multiples of angelic strangers while Octo-Mom gets her hair-done, travels to get manicures and pedicures to look good on-camera...

...Cynic or Psychic instincts tell me that the doctors involved will never be punished...the children will never know the security and pleasure of bonding with the mother. They are not intended to know their father. They probably will go through life with feelings of abandonment while crowded two to a crib in infancy, forever eating buffet-style, never sitting down to a family dinner table, dependent on the goodness of strangers while cloistered in a media frenzy...What were those doctors thinking?

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Good Fed Ex - Bad Octo-Mom

On this #1 "new things begin" Universal Day, I found a "first" that I hope begins a trend and a repeat "bad" that I hope begins to stop.

There's good news - a helpful offering - from Fed Ex that brings forth the my hope that their new policy will catch on: Other companies may come up with ideas for sharing too.Jobless needing resume copies may go to any of the 1600 Fed Ex owned Kinko stores and receive 25 resume copies on high quality paper. Sure, some may go from KInko to Kinko and receive 25 copies from each store. That's unlikely with most resumes submitted on the Internet - and Fed Ex isn't concerned. Their offer may be taken by the 900 employees Fed Ex-Kinko recently let-go...times are not good for the company either. However, cheers to Fed Ex for delivering to me the first good news seen in the media in months.

Bad news too - and Octo-Mom is at it again - her motherly manner includes threatening to kill herself in front of children. Police have been to her home to free a child from a locked bedroom and recently she hysterically called 911 because she couldn't find one of her kids. On the phone, in front of another child, she told the 911 operator that she was going to kill herself if the child was lost.

The operator asked her not to say that in front of a child...that didn't stop her hysteria. Octo-Nervous-Wacko- Mom called 911 shortly after to say the child took a walk and returned safely. Apparently, a neighbor complained to police that her kids played in the mud and were not cared for prior to this "lost child" happening. There's "bad" stuff - not secure mothering at Octo's house.

I think Fed Ex-Kinko should be recognized for accepting the bad time we're in and taking a good action. I think the Octo-Mom bad chaos should be stopped before the Octuplets are sent home. Might be nice to stop in a neighborhood Kinko and say thanks...that would be a first for Kinkos. I think Child Services should take the first step to consistent checking-in to be sure parenting is provided by a mentally stable Octo-Mom. What do you think?

Thursday, February 26, 2009

Brangelina, The Octo-Mom and Childcare

After hours of writing today's blog...the server wiped it away - all that was left was the title. So, this is gonna' be a quick opinion and comparison on Brangelina and Octo-Mom.

With seven kids, glitzy movie-making and mega-bucks and all the help cooking, cleaning, washing and ironing possible, Brangelina go out in public looking like "there's no time for me." Previously dapper fashionisto, Brad Pitt, looks like a six-packer , overly-committed, truck driver that's been on the road without a mirror for days while holding one kid and hand-holding another. Angie, is always covered in a tot holding something. But, messy, individually changed by their child-filled lifestyle, their children have a presence in their lives. Octo-Mom is on TV - coiffed, neat as a pin and sans children, talking about what she wanted before they arrived and what she will do in the future. There's something wrong with this picture.

If Nadya Suleman was taking care of her brood of six before the litter of eight arrive, isn't there something she needs to do to prepare? She' going to school - getting her Masters, working a job and taking care of Nadya.

Besides the outrageous costs of prenatal, natal, hospital stay and life after Nadya takes over, is there a money tree connected to Nadya that will provide culture and education and is there a real Mother who forgets herself - her clothes, her hair, her personal options - in her connection to her children?

Well, I enjoyed looking at Brad the Dandy and I like to see Angelina's face without a Banky surrounding, however they choose to raise a brood and have altered their over-privileged lifestyle to a hurried , throw on a tee, pull up the dungarees and "let's get the kids dressed and out before it rains" pace.

I do not enjoy seeing Octo-Mom on Dr. Phil explaining her needs in prime time or seeing her begging for donations web site or like the thought that some idiot offered her a TV talk show. There's a difference in the way a desire to have many children can be handled.

For the Brangelina Clan, it seems that holding a child's hand is more important than self-care. For Nadya, Octo-Mom, dressing for public appearances, getting her Masters, collecting food stamps and public health assistance...does she have time for story-telling or hand-holding? Always alone or occasionally with her over-worked, stressed, Mother, singularly purposeful; there will be eight more to hand-hold,,, when does she have time for the six tots in her care presently?